Remove the dust from your soul!

I know, winter could be a real challenge, after the Christmas lights are off, and all that amazing feeling of hope is… ”gone with the wind”. Or should I say, with the blizzard?!

There are no magical solutions tot fix your problems, but if you think of a dark, grey, and icy winter day as the potential day to meet the love of your life, or to surprise your existing one with a special dinner, out of the blue, you might discover that winter could turn into your favorite part of the year, forever! It`s simply because you create an amazing memory for you and for your special one!

Yes, you might say that your wedding ring already has a lot of scratches, and your kids are always around, asking for more, but this is the real challenge! Remove the dust from your soul, remembering those butterflies you used to feel anytime he or she was next to you, or just on the other side of the phone, texting you, or making you feel dizzy with the simply sound of his or her voice! It doesn`t have to be so hard to remember all this!

As for the kids, remember the joy of expecting them, of holding them for the first time in your arms, or the first kiss and hug you got from them, and the list has no end, trust me! I know, they are teenagers, now, and they don`t want to hug you anymore, and everything you say or do is too much for them, but, believe it or not, their unconditioned love for you is still there, deep inside their troubled souls! You can give them a special winter day, too, simply not asking them anything, giving them silence, and their favorite meal, without asking anything, no hugs, no kisses, no thanks!

A kid is precious all the time! Maybe you should remember when they were only few days, or few months old, and they were giving you nothing but joy!  They were keeping you awake night and day, and you were so… happily exhausted! Just like when your special one was keeping you awake all night, whispering sweet words on the phone, and the next morning, you were feeling great, working great, and, more important, looking great!

Now, think about all this story and look in the mirror! Try to surprise yourself, changing the hairstyle, the color of your lipstick, or of your makeup! Try a new perfume, or wear the best perfume you keep only for special occasions! Well, let me tell you a secret: Today is the most special occasion of your life to feel better than ever before, thanking God for this day full of opportunities! Am I right, or am I right?

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